How to Harness and Promote Optimism in Recovery
Estimated watch time: 2 mins 56 secs
Summary:
Viewing life through a lens of pessimism can hold you back. Optimism can help you move forward in a positive way. This video guides you through increasing your positive thinking. At the same time, you’ll work on recognizing and refuting negative thinking.
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u003ch3u003eOptimismu003c/h3u003ernu003ciu003eOptimism is a belief that good things will happen in the future. It is a tendency to expect a favorable outcomeu003c/iu003e.rnrnThe opposite of this is pessimism, which is believing the worst will happen. It is an inclination to emphasize adverse aspects, conditions and possibilities.rnrnOptimism does not mean you do not need the potential negative consequences; it is a matter of being more focused on the positive and putting more attention and time toward the potential gains. People who are optimistic tend to see negative consequences or negative outcomes as temporary, something that just did not work out, whereas a pessimist tends to see a negative outcome as occurring because there is something wrong with him or her and that this negative outcome will always occur.rnrnIt is, as you can imagine, much easier to move forward or toward something when we expect this action to have a positive outcome. When we are expecting a negative outcome, we tend to want to sit still or back away. And, research shows that having a more optimistic view on life improves our physical health and our mental health.rnrnSome of us are naturally more optimistic and some of us are more naturally pessimistic. So, the question becomes, can we learn to be more optimistic? And, the answer is yes, we can. We can learn to increase our positive thinking and we can learn to refute our negative thinking. We learn to notice our negative thinking and challenge the reality of these thoughts. And, we learn to insert a positive thought.rnrnThe first step is to notice your negative thoughts. Then you can ask yourself questions like these below:rnu003culu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eIs this a useful way to be thinking?u003c/liu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eIs this thought really true?u003c/liu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eIs this thought making things worse for me?u003c/liu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eHow else can I think about this?u003c/liu003ernu003c/ulu003ernIf you are not sure how else to think about it, ask a friend to provide a different perspective. If you are a religious or spiritual person, you can ask for guidance from God or Spirit or the Universe and see what comes to mind for you.rnrnYou can begin to form more positive thoughts by asking:rnu003culu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eWhat can I learn from this?u003c/liu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eWhat can I do to help myself feel better?u003c/liu003ern tu003cli aria-level=u00221u0022u003eWho can I call for some assistance?u003c/liu003ernu003c/ulu003ernNotice what was good about the scenario. Work to stay out of focusing only on the negative. See the event in a well-rounded way.rnrnPractice writing a daily gratitude journal, naming three things you are grateful for in each day. You can do this on your own or find a friend to send a gratitude text to each day and receive one back from them.
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